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Top Ten Hair Removal Tips

By Shweta Govindarajan


It’s 4:30 in the afternoon, you’ve just run your hand over your legs, 
and there it is — the tiny, prickly, unmistakable beginnings of stubble.
And your last shave was only a few hours ago.  Hair removal is a 
complicated and frustrating process, and one that gets little attention 
compared to other mainstream beauty issues.  And for many South Asian women, 
who often feel the most afflicted, hair removal is more than a chore – 
it’s an obsession. 

The truth is there’s no hard and fast method that works for everyone – 
and there aren’t too many ways to stop hair growth permanently without 
spending a good chunk of change.  But there are general guidelines to 
help steer you down the right path.  Consider trying different methods 
to see what works the best, and take heart – you’re not the only one 
struggling with hair removal! 

1. Know Your Enemy 

Assess the areas of your body that need attention to figure out which 
part responds best to what treatment.  For instance, threading works 
great on eyebrows, sideburns, and cheeks but could be an ouch-inducing
experience on larger areas like your arms and legs.  Waxing might work
like a charm on your legs but can cause breakouts on your face.  Different 
areas respond differently to each treatment, so be open to switching it 
up or trying something new, just as long as it’s safe.  And remember, 
just because it worked for your friends doesn’t mean it’s the right 
method for you.

2. Know Thyself 

Not all skin is created equally, as those with sensitive skin know all 
too well.  Plucking, threading, waxing, depilatories – each option has 
its merits, and its dangers.  Pay attention to what happens immediately
and in the few days after your removal treatment and make changes or 
adjustments accordingly.  Nair, a chemical lotion to get rid of unwanted 
hair, can burn your skin, even if you’ve used it before with no 
problem.  For the complete skinny on hair removal methods check out  
Hairfacts.com, maintained by a Chicago-based journalist who has compiled 
a virtual database of tips and research to help you make the right decisions. 

3. Rough Road Ahead

For those of us unlucky enough to have to deal with troubled and hairy 
skin, hair removal is even trickier.  Acne medications can make skin 
more sensitive and susceptible to irritation, and dermatologists have 
been known to deem facial waxing off-limits for women undergoing acne 
treatment because wax strips can peel off a layer of skin along with the 
hair.  Some South Asian women have turned to threading as a friendlier 
solution, but it could be more painful, and improper technique can cause 
tiny cuts in delicate eye and cheek areas.  

4. Don’t Make It Harder

Be smart, don’t use shortcuts, and work with your body, not against it.  
Try plucking after you’ve showered – the heat opens your pores and 
makes it easier, and possibly less painful, to yank out those stray hairs.  
A warm washcloth applied to your face also does the trick.  Avoid dry 
shaving at all costs, even if it takes a few extra minutes to apply a 
lubricant.  Not only can your skin feel itchy and irritated afterward, 
but you also raise the risk of cutting yourself – not a pretty sight if 
your post-shave plan involves a skirt.  (Beauty magazines recommend 
shaving your legs and underarms with hair conditioner for an extra 
moisturizing boost.)  And be religious about changing your razors often and 
making sure your tweezers have a precise tip – with blunt tweezers or an 
old, dull blade, you might as well take the hair off with a rusty butter 
knife. 

 
5. Period Blues

A common feeling among women is that the approach of your period makes 
nerve endings hypersensitive, throwing the doorway to pain wide open.  
For those women who have a lower pain threshold, it might be a good 
idea to be cautious in the days leading up to your period when it comes to 
hair removal.  Sometimes it’s unavoidable, but knowing when to stay 
away from the salon could make it easier on you.

6. Take the Edge Off

And speaking of pain, why whimper and wail when modern medicine exists?  
Topical anesthetics, available over the counter and by prescription, 
can dramatically reduce the discomfort of hair removal.  They may not
completely eradicate pain but anesthetics can make the process a little 
less dreadful.  In a pinch?  To temporarily numb your skin, try rubbing 
an ice cube on areas like your eyebrows and cheeks.   

7. Amateurs Beware 

Fabulous eyebrows are the most coveted mark of beauty—and the easiest 
part of our faces to ruin.  And for South Asian women, our eyebrows, 
those elegant strips of ebony, can be either a gift from god or the bane 
of our existence.  Before attacking your brows, have a plan and know 
your desired shape.  And if you’re about to start plucking, remember to 
move a few steps back from the mirror every couple of hairs to assess 
your progress and keep yourself in check.  Novices might want to consider
a salon visit the first few times to get a good blueprint to work from 
in the future.  Eyebrows.com can provide step-by-step guides on how to 
shape and style brows and even offers 911 help for the overzealous plucker 
in all of us.

8. Outgrow Your Ingrown Hair

It’s a curse that’s fallen on many of us: those vile, coarse hairs that 
remain under the skin, cause infection, and make hair removal more of a 
headache that it already is.  For women who are prone to ingrown hair, 
make sure to exfoliate regularly, with a loofah or scrub, to slough off 
dead skin.  You may also want to consult your cosmetician or 
dermatologist to find out if a medicated exfoliating treatment, or even an 
alternate hair removal method, would be better for you. 

9. If it’s too Good to be True… 

It’s hard to believe, but so far, there is no miracle hair removal 
method that is cheap, easy, painless, and permanent all at the same time.  
Miracle creams or pills won’t stop hair forever.  Only electrolysis, 
which zaps hair follicles with electricity, can halt hair growth, but 
it’s expensive, often painful, and tedious.  And it works better on 
smaller areas like your stomach and chin.  Laser hair removal, which sends 
light into the skin to target the hair follicle, works better for large 
areas like legs, but it only lasts up to six months and works best on 
lighter skinned women with dark hair.  Both methods are considered safe 
when done by a certified professional.  Our advice?  Be wary of 
false-sounding claims.  For more help, try Hairfacts.com’s section on 
dubious hair removal methods to figure out if what you’re hearing is too 
good to be true.  

10. Maintenance Is Key

This is the gospel of hair removal.  You can minimize your efforts on 
certain parts of your body – your eyebrows, underarms, and legs in 
particular – if you tend to these areas everyday rather than waiting long 
periods of time between treatments.  An extra ten minutes in the shower 
for your legs and underarms and another ten before you go to sleep for 
your eyebrows (make sure you’re working under good lighting) can free up 
a Saturday afternoon for activities a lot more interesting than 
spending time with Sally Hansen.

 

 

Shweta Govindarajan is a Washington-based journalist who secretly desires to be a makeup artist. In addition to feeding her Sephora addiction every chance she gets, Shweta writes about all things beauty for ABCDLady.

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